
American teenagers are more technologically advanced than their parents. According to the Pew Internet and American Life Project:
“Nearly three quarters (73%) of online teens and an equal number (72%) of young adults use social network sites. By contrast, older adults have not kept pace; some 40%… use social sites.”
This lopsided reality has widened the chasm of miscommunication that often exist between teens and parents. With undisputed wizardry, teens navigate the treacherous waters of social media, without a hint of inhibition. And in the process they have truncated their world through Facebook, Myspace and cell phones.
But their ability to efficiently adapt to our continuous cultural shifts, has inflated their hedonistic urges. What was once unthinkable is now acceptable and common. Decency has become a tired, outmoded, relic. While exhibitionism and sexual indiscretion are celebrated as self-expression.
Consider the rising phenomena of ‘sexting’. An illegal act, which consists of teens sending naked pictures of themselves via text message. According to the National Campaign to Support Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, twenty percent of teens have engaged in ‘sexting’. Their carefree attitude and nonsensical fearlessness, is their guiding light, much to the chagrin of their parents. But other vices plague teens.
This truncated world of American teens has allowed cyber bullying to quietly flourish. But a recent case of cyber bullying, that drove a 15-year-old girl to commit suicide, has spotlighted the practice.
According to the Pew Internet and American Life Project:
“About one third (32%) of all teenagers who use the internet say they have been targets of a range of annoying and potentially menacing online activities—such as receiving threatening messages.”
It’s as if teens are their own worst enemies. This unhinged frenzy, that often define a teens social life, is often fueled by jadedness and indifference. This enduring detachment from reality, has misled inquisitive teens, to a superficial, unrestrictive, lifestyle. And sadly, their actions, are often mistaken for typical teen angst. But the result of some of their decisions can be destructive. Deliberate bullying is the ultimate loss of sense of self.
But most disturbing is a new government report on teens. According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s National Center for Health Statistics, the leading cause of death for American teens are car crashes. Other causes of death include murder, suicide, cancer and heart disease.
Equally disturbing is the fact that homicide is the leading cause of death for African-American male teens. Steven Reinberg, reporter for Health Day, cites the report as follows:
“Each year in the United States, an estimated 16,375 children between the ages of 12 and 19 die. Nearly 50 percent die in accidents, with car crashes accounting for more than one-third of all deaths…In fact, among black male teens, homicide is the leading cause of death.”
He goes on to enumerate with specificity the causes that claim the lives of thousands of teens each year.
“Accidents accounted for 48 percent of deaths; homicide, 13 percent; suicide, 11 percent; cancer, 6 percent; and heart disease, 3 percent.”
The culture of permissiveness has gradually permeated into the collective mindset of traditional, American Society. It has become the center of gravity by which moral standards are judged. The values of past generations are now a distant memory. And the unrestrictive nature of this neo-cultural experiment is slowly reshaping traditional, American values.
The most powerful country in the world, with the best resources for advancement, is losing its future generation. And it all begins with the culture of uninhibited permissiveness, which often fails to educate its adherents, about the pitfalls of unrestrained hedonism. And the tragedy of it all is that we know it’s happening, yet, we remain silent.
Source: Health Day.